人到中年保持读书

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今天带着小博去new port图书馆看书

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回来的路上

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我还问他

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我说小波

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你知道我为什么这么喜欢阅读啊

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我还特别喜欢

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希望你们喜欢阅读嘛

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我儿子说

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那阅读呢那确实能够掌握知识啊

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知识渊博

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实际上知识是一方面啊

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所以我觉得任何人只要是在落寞贫穷啊

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或者说低谷的时候呢

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你只要是有一个读书的好习惯

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你是很容易渡过去的

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先讲一个逻辑吧

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就是我上初中和高中的时候啊

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初中的时候

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就因为看了那个戴尔卡耐基的成功学全书

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哎我瞬间我就说将来我要成为一个亿万富豪

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就是戴尔卡耐基的成功有权书

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实际上高中的时候那3年我看了很多很多书

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也就是像啊

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当然那个时候看的文学比较多嘛对吧

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国内的那些啊路遥的平凡的世界啊

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优化的活着呀

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啊欧美的那些书籍

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那些都是些经典的投入

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就相当于当时列入了一些语文啊

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或者是一些一些一些经典图书名单的一些书啊

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那个时候读书的目的呢

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就是感觉从戏里面找到一些共鸣啊

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然后整个人代比较感动

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实际上这个读书呢能带来的结果是什么呢

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就你的心会很静

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然后就不太会受环境的影响

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就现在的很多人呢为什么没那么充实啊

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很容易受环境干扰

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其实根本原因呢就是读书太少了对吧

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如果说你能够有足够多的阅读啊

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足够多的思考心境的话

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实际上你会发现个问题啊

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就是并没有你想的这样

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就你把你的每一天的生活呀感悟啊

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这种经历

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而这种经历呢才是一个最宝贵的财富

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而这种经历带来的结果是什么呢

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比如说我那时候是在学录院的时候啊

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就那个时候我感觉我们学校真的是不行

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就老师也不行

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同学也不行

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看不到什么前途和希望

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这中间我一直徘徊嘛

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那第一个呢干什么不知道

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就当保安嘛

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那当保安的时候呢

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就那个时候我有一个记日记的习惯哈

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就那个时候还是坚持每天啊看书

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然后写日记

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然后在后面呢你就是财布布馆当业务员

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幼儿园你想600块钱底薪

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你像我们同事都是泡妞啊

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打牌啊

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啊天天啊喝酒啊

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但我那时候就找个图书馆看书还是看书

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因为那个时候没有AI嘛

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没有和迪太一样啊

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有社交媒体啊

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没有什么都没有

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就是大量的看书

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那个时候看书有什么用呢

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我也不知道哈

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就是感觉很充实啊

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然后呢就那别人跑业务

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那就是纯跑业务啊

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跑完就跑完了

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那时候我还带个相机啊

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我还记录了当时跑业务的那些场景

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不过后来那那照片呢搬家啊都都丢没了

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那会我留了很多很多的照片当纪念

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实际上毒素带来的结果是什么呢

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就是内心的强大

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思想的坚定

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然后目标的明确

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就是很多时候大家想啊聪明这个东西呢

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它是很多东西天生的啊

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比如说像我们从小到大哈考试能力

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很多人很擅长考试

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要我们从初中高中

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他考第一名的永远是那么几个人对吧

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他考北大清华的永远那么几个人

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那我们大部分人其实不一定那么擅长考试

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但读书的好处在于说

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这个习惯呢可以不断的提升你的能力

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而且这个作用呢在某一天你用上了

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比如说今天你要做自己自媒体

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你发现我怎么样能够对吧

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思路清晰的也能说上20分钟

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你没有读书的习惯

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你是很难做到这一点的

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你看对我来讲

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我连着说三个小时也没事

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而且绝对不会重复

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就这些都是因为你长时间阅读啊

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长时间这个思考啊

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长时间呢这个是吧

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就做这些总结嘛

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然后很容易形成这种习惯

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那第二个呢就内心很强大

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价值观很明确

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就是我为什么我经常讲价值观啊

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很多人说强哥价值观的东西到底是不是虚的

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我说不是各位就救我命的

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只有价值观

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其他的

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你说能力的东西

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运气的东西可遇不可求

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但价值观为什么能救命呢

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就是你的选择

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就是大家今天你你就想吧

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你设想一下啊

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就拿我自己的人生选择啊

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比如说在山东啊

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选择这个做电商

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那为什么我一定要去广东呢

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我要和广东做生意呢

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就因为我知道他广东人的这种生意理念

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他讲诚信看长远对吧

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你再比如说为什么我一定要来美国

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18年抓住机会啊

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如果不来美国

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我也不会买美股啊

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不买美股的话

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也不会说在这几年啊

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所有人资产都下滑

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生意缩水的时候

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那我们还在美国翻了这么多倍对吧

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那还有一条呢

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就是那如果我们价值观哈是混沌的哈

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和我们这个山东文化啊

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山东人一样的话

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那我们的选择里面

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肯定大部分都是一个山东人的思考方式

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你看这两天好多山东的兄弟啊

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这是我们湖南群的兄弟啊

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给我留言啊

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说权哥

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你看这两年这个税收啊

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给给罚没了哈啊补税啊

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罚款啊

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罚罚款35年白干了

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实际上大家去想啊

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就是我在18年开始着手办移民的时候

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我给我身边很多人说过

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无论是传统电商的还是这两年做IP的

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还是做做直播的

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我都养过

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但是你知道人是什么心态啊

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就是当你处于瞬间的时候

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你是很难考虑这些啊

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长期主义啊

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或者说隐藏的风险的

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但是因为我这个人呢我是加重的很明确

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但凡我看到和我不一样的人的时候

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我下意识的我说是反击的

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而且我的反击能力呢还是蛮强的哈

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就是我绝对不和这个人同流合污

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但是呢这个东西的好处在于说

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因为你知道这个不是你想要的

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所以你就一直找出路

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坏处是什么呢

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因为你经常会反抗

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所以呢你经常受到打击

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所以这两个本质上是说

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性格里面有一个坚硬的一个东西

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就是要硬啊

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就这点东西我也在改啊

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就是啊就比如说还差

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有的时候啊

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网上很多人攻击你吧

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因为你做价值投资分享

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很多人攻击你

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他攻击你的人里面呢

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有的人他是出于这种单纯就投资人投资啊

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比如说而我的投资标的很跌了啊

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你这攻击很正常对吧

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人家亏钱了吗

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亏钱了

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为什么不能骂你两句

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骂就骂呗

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但有些工具呢

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他其实他是他不是不是就是那事啊

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纯粹是瞎乱搞哈

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是那天也就蹭你流量

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或者说对吧

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就是就往你身上泼粪

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就这种呢是有的时候也会有有意见嘛

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要我在雪球写文章也是

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实际上我也知道这事儿

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你事实来讲就是蹭流量

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完全没必要在意啊

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如果说啊你是一个啊没有这种啊

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自我就自我就是很明确自我观点的人

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你肯定受影响呀

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但如果你受你有自我

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你知道你不会太在意这些

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你也知道他的目的是什么

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那你也不用在意了

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所以这个就是读书的好处啊

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就是没有必要在意任何东西

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他这个也是跟北方的兄弟啊

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就讲一个逻辑

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就是你但凡想追求个人的自由

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你就不要在意外人外人的评价

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实际上做IP这个事呢

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这也是我要给所有人讲哈

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就是IP能不能成这东西不好说啊

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他为什么要去做A表达

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这是大家要想明白的哈

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当你在表达自己的观点的时候呢

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实际上你就面临着一个拷问

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别人为什么要认同你的观点

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所以呢你在表达你的观点的时候

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你要的不是让别人认同

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而是你自我的树立和认同

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这一点我不知道有多少人能够听明白啊

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就是你在反复的去分享自己的观点啊

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自己对世界的看法啊

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你总是能够影响一批家同同道中人

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就是价值观和你一致的人

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而且你越能给他们带来一些足够的价值

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就像今天我分享这个啊估值模型啊

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商业模式啊

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财务分析啊

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啊期权策略呀

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啊全球资产配置呀

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我讲的这东西实际上很多很多人给我发了留言

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感谢信说谦哥啊看了你的东西

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我的信寄上来了

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强哥看了你的

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我不亏钱了

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权哥我突然以为我知道怎么样估值了

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主要看老东西

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我知道我怎么样安排自己的人生了

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其实这些观点这些人才是你表达观点的时候

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你应该在意的对象

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而不是那些啊攻击你啊

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诽谤你啊

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污蔑你啊

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往你身上泼大便的

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其实那些东西其实无所谓

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因为斯坦利带你

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你既然有了这么多粉丝

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你就应该接受任何人的质疑哈

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接受任何人的挑衅哈

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包括哈攻击啊

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其实这些东西都无所谓

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嘿如果说你不是有这么强大的内心

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你也撑不了今天

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所以这个也是建议所有兄弟们呢

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养成一个习惯哈

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就首先呢就是一定要去不停的读书

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不停的阅读

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那第二个呢就是引导孩子养成阅读习惯

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小孩啊在AI时代有手机

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有电脑

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实际上他们呢很难静下心来

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各位但是心境才是能力养成的根源啊

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如果这个人心不静

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他是不可能成大事了

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你见过哪个信不见的人能够持续做正确的决策

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几乎不可能

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所以这个呢也是我自己啊

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我自己个人成长一个经历哈

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当然了

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你说人到了中年的时候啊

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你说真正能够嗨伴我们终生的是什么呢

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其实就是阅读

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各位你想想吧哈

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当你老了的时候

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你说你你还能沟通交错吗

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对吧

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就我每次想起来我回国的时候啊

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就是我原来那些供应商啊

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包括那些老同事哈

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然后步步高老兄弟回国之后呢

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连着喝哈哈哈

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121期甚至一两个月身体都垮了

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说真的我现在的状态是

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我应该说这40多年41年啊

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哈哈最快乐的状态啊

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这真的毫不犹毫不夸张的讲啊

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这是一个最舒服的状态

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就是每天有时间思考是吧

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每天呢就是不能表达自己的内心哈

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不停的去思考

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不停的梳理哈

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不停的去啊

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围绕自己喜欢的事呢不停的去琢磨是吧

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然后投资赚钱啊

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然后思考赚钱

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然后呢还能阅读

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其实这个状态其实这是我几十年一直想要的

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你你要在国内呢处于我之前的状态啊

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每天供筹交错是心静不下来

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然后你的孩子呢他的心也很难静下来

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各位你想吧

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那为什么有的人哈家庭里面都喜欢阅读呢

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所以家庭有的人心静的人

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那是为什么有些家庭里面都不喜欢阅读呢

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因为大家的心都不静

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当你的心不静的时候

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你的孩子大概这个心也很难静

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所以这也是做电商

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做直播的兄弟们

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最因为遇到的问题就是大家的内心啊

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其实一直处于不怎么安静的状态

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而且各位自从我分享了投资以来呢

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很多人受我的影响啊

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哈然后开始了价值投资之路

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然后整个人的内心内心平静了

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家庭和睦了哈

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疾病没有了

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关键是钱还赚到了

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这关键是呵呵

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幸福感比以前强多了

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其实我从19年我就劝告所有人躺平

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躺平不是不干啊

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躺平就是你慢慢的干

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昨天呃我们一年做十来个亿哈

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做鞋的一个女老板还跟我讲

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他权哥哎呀

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真的想明白了

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你说的很对

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躺平以前她很焦虑哈

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很玩命

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亲给女3年啊

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那大年30大年初三就跑到济南找我请教去了

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但是呢自从我给他分享了

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我说你一定要学会躺平

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实际上躺平是一种智慧啊

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什么概念呢

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就如果行情好

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你干一年等10年

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行情不好

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你干10年也不如原来一年

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而且行情不好

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因为你的猛打猛冲反而会亏的更多

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这就是大部分不擅长思考的人

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他习惯于拼命奔波快速

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所以这个呢就是我以前的性格啊

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我以前性格很急是吧

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每年不挣那个100%

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我都觉得着急

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到后面呢

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我说接受现实了

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其实我内心并不平静

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直到这两年

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说真的哈

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我给我团队的要求就是哈哈不亏钱就行哈

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倒闭我也接受啊

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亏钱我也接受

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但是我可以不干

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实际上你看我这两年因为心很静

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我就没有做过任何错误的决策

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如果啊今天啊罗化能5年前是这是6年前

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我肯定也是一大批错误

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所以哎呀阅读呢带来的习惯真的是呵只有好处

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没有坏处

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而且呢整个人的身心程度

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包括当你老的时候

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你发现只有那种德高望重的人

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然后呢表里如一的人

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然后有思想传递的人

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才会得到孩子的尊敬

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才会避免老的时候孤苦伶仃

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你也不用担心

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说今天我对孩子严厉了

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言起了不用的

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你只要有思想

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别人尊重你

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你的孩子也会尊重你

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但如果说你没有思想哈

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别人不尊重你

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你的孩子大概率也不尊重你

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哪怕你今天有很多钱也没有用

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所以各位开始阅读

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开始一个人思考

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一定要跟好人在一块儿

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然后阅读好书

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跟好人交朋友

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把自己的思想和价值观呢永远好属于自己的

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